iCANDY

just a lil vid i use to INSPIRE myself to get up... and in the GYM

sundae FUNNIES

hello FRIDAY night...

well dont just stand there... C'mon in ;)

the DWELLing

ok MONDAY morning, you asked for it...

making today the START of a SUPER week

Happy Daddy's Day : nite nite edition

...to all those protectors and providers

oh WORD?!! : Daddy's Day edition

aint got time to talk...

... just "hi" and "bye" b!tch

Okay, I have dilly-dally'd long enough. Its the middle of the month, the middle of the year - it is time to get a move on with my initiatives. I am putting this out  there, and basically putting myself on BLAST; to be held accountable by the universe. 


>> My next big step is to gain acceptance into a B-school. It is time to beef up the resume.. actually, way past time. I have always found degrees to be sexy. Nothing like a dude that EXCELS in multiple facets. 

dayDREAMING...

I play this game occasionally. Psychologists call it VISUALIZING, I call it DAYDREAMING. i like to pick a day in the future, usually a year or two out, and simply 'run through' the day. I try to describe the events of the day in detail beginning from when i awaken (next to Tyson Beckford.. just kidding :) til i hit the sack that night.

The game is not only fun, but it can also be very telling. I love to play it with friends and people i am getting to know. From playing the game, often motivations and priorities become apparent, revealing themselves as the player describes their daily activities and how they interact with the world surrounding them. Plus, for me, its a great way to check if someone has VISION and imagination. Playing this game.. is pretty much a prerequisite to dating me.

gym CLASS: CATALYST

** grabs gym bag and heads out the door**

mirror MIRROR on the wall....

...nevermind, I AM

the HUSBAND type...

So... we all know that I have an UNHEALTHY obsession with Mechad Brooks.  The man is phyne. And, in my imaginary world, he personifies all the qualities I desire in a man. 


One thing that attracts me to Mechad, as an actor, is his ability to be believable in variety of character choices. He is the plucky team mate on the bball team, he is the 'bad boy with a heart' on Wisteria Lane, he is the playboy lawyer, and he is the pretty boy thug. He does it all and he does it well.


Possessing the ability to move in and out of separate worlds, effortlessly, makes him my (imaginary) HUSBAND TYPE. I am attracted to a man with MENTAL DEXTERITY. Someone who i can take to the comic book shop, hit a sports bar with, host a formal dinner party for, and tie up in leather to my bedpost at the end of night (what, i like a lil kink every now and then;) *shoulder shrug*


Some have told me that I am asking to much by looking for a man with so many layers. And I would totally believe that- if I didnt possess that quality myself. #sideeye #imjustsayin. I have a variety of interests and the list is still growing. I am most attracted to a man who has the same outlook on life. 


So if you have Rick Ross, Taylor swift, Kanye, and Gotye all on the same playlist.. call me..i am in 'the book'... and by that, i mean the face'book' ;)

oh WORD!!??

1ST PERIOD: GYM CLASS

he got LEEEGS... and knows how to use'em ;)

oh WORD??!!

happy BIRTHDAY (month) to ME!!

the PERFECT cake to celebrate the PERFECT DAY... #allaboutME

#teamcelebrate

#teambeingselfishtoday

#teamMEmeMEmeME

... #team-no-one-is-gonna-love-you-like-you