the HOT GAY NERD in me...

the QUIETLY brilliant

What am i?

i am Kung Fu Hustle on Thursday night

i am giggling at life's lil inside jokes

i am playing racquetball JUST to wear the outfit (i look good in shorts)

... oh, i like the grunting too

i am turning 26 for the second year in a row... (shhhh... )

i am referencing cartoons from the 80's, def comedy jam, and family guy in the same sentence

i am listening to Tony Robbins on the commute home

i am the KING in peasants clothing

i am at the gym, trying not to shake my ass TOO HARD to the rthym of my ipod

i am pigging out on raw cookie dough and peanut M&Ms

i am a California Boy at heart

i am planning a surprise party

i am "not like other guys" (a la THRILLER)

i am slowly become addicted to Gucci cologne

i am 'ON 2 THE next ONE'

i am a MOGUL in the making

i am .... finished

(kidding, .... ..... I AM JUST GETTING STARTED)

the POWER couple...

Yes, we CAN....

For all those who are wondering if a loving relationship can exist between two young gay black men for OVER 13 YEARS and still counting..

Yes, we CAN...

(thanks for being an example guys :)

iCandy...

sometimes its just HARD to get out of bed.... for one reason, or another...

Tennis anyone?

With the season breaking, I am planning on taking up more athletic ventures. Yea, I have done the racquetball thing- with some success, but it is time to up the ante'. I am currently taking a look at local intramural sports. So far I am aware of a basketball, tennis, and flag football league that I might pursue. Something to better myself both socially and physically.

Socially and physically? Let me explain.

Because I am a bit of a homebody, I can be quite the hermit. "Darn you netflix, and your never ending supply of anime and indie flix" Soooo, I am taking on this adventure to expand my horizons and social circle. Translation: I will hopefully sweat a lil and make a new friend. Oh, and any reason to buy another jockstrap... well, just cant be wrong:)

Along with the new physical activity, I am working on IMPROVING the diet. So tomorrow morning-- str8 to the produce isle!

Point is, I came into the year with many items on my grand "to do" list. So, as the first quarter is coming to a close, I am taking inventory. Gotta keep the motivation high, and my FOCUS on the GOAL.

uMMMmmm... so where can i get a pair of those lil white shorts?

where can i find these...

...boots!!

iCandy...

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...the self PORTRAIT

ANGEL and Nene are inseparable--both as lovers and, soon, as partners in crime. Dubbed "the Twins" by the police and tabloids, they scratch out a living trawling through the Buenos Aires underworld, until a botched heist goes wrong.

a movie based on a TRUE story!

**the plot is hot, put this on your list

the Renewal...

Something about this picture symbolizes 'RENEWAL'.

Cutting away the 'old' to make room for the 'NEW'. Renewal can be empowering, but there is something very vulnerable about leaving the new exposed. The old was comfortable. You were comfortable with it, your friends were comfortable with it-- it is easy to sustain what is already in place. But to break away and take on a different direction is the exact opposite of comfort. You are instantly thrown into a new place- that requires effort, and the ability to adapt. The people that surround you may reject it all together.

'Sustaining a routine', becomes developing a plan. Moreover, there is no guarantee of the end result.

Why do we sustain? Because we are fully aware of the outcome. But what keeps people in fear of breaking into the 'new'? It is the fear of the unknown.

Time to face MY fears....

**hear the rumble of MY clippers?