stop and STARE

the POWER couple...

rockCANDY...

*no studio needed*

sunday FUNNIES

giggling while SMH...

its BEEN quite a while...

its been a while since... i have kissed lips and tasted my own cologne

since i have listened to fingertips sing a love song along the small of my back

slowed my breathe to match the rhythm of his

scrambled eggs for two

since i have had dayum-near arguments about the names of imaginary kids

since i have felt his presence amidst a crowd of people

took a nap, using his chest as a pillow and his heartbeat as my alarm clock

felt comforted by the his scent lingering on my skin

.. yea.. its been QUITE a while.

by Twisted Wing

sunday FUNNIES

HOMER SIMPSON is one animated man - that can get it.

spring CLEANING -

success HABITS...

habits of SUCCESSFUL people... (p.5)...FINALE

41. They are happy to swim against the tide, to do what most won’t. They are not people pleasers and they don’t need constant approval.

42. They are more comfortable with their own company than most.

43. They set higher standards for themselves (a choice we can all make), which in turn produces greater commitment, more momentum, a better work ethic and of course, better results.

44. They don’t rationalise failure. While many are talking about their age, their sore back, their lack of time, their poor genetics, their ‘bad luck’, their nasty boss and their lack of opportunities (all good reasons to fail), they are finding a way to succeed despite all their challenges.

45. They have an off switch. They know how to relax, enjoy what they have in their life and to have fun.

46. Their career is not their identity, it’s their job. It’s not who they are, it’s what they do.

47. They are more interested in effective than they are in easy. While the majority look for the quickest, easiest way (the shortcut), they look for the course of action which will produce the best results over the long term.

48. They finish what they start. While so many spend their life starting things that they never finish, successful people get the job done - even when the excitement and the novelty have worn off. Even when it ain’t fun.

49. They are multi-dimensional, amazing, wonderful complex creatures (as we all are). They realise that not only are they physical and psychological beings, but emotional and spiritual creatures as well. They consciously work at being healthy and productive on all levels.

50. They practice what they preach. They don’t talk about the theory, they live the reality.

*cough, COUGH*

Ummmm.. i feel a 'sick day' coming on

I NEVER WANTed anything from U...

except EVERYTHING you HAD... (and whatever else was left)

So... what does it take to GET/KEEP a good man? What is the magic word ... or ... magic d**k size... or ... magic bank account balance? According to today's urban radio playlist-- have the biggest ass, smallest waist, be the BADDEST. nothing related to the intellect or personality is neccessary... just be pretty on the surface.

It can be hard not to feed into the hype. Hard not to believe that something is wrong with me. Something is lacking. I mean.. and to compound the issue, i am surrounded by beautiful people-- i am surrounded by the BADDEST.

Upon a closer look... even the baddest dudes i know dont seem to have what I am looking for. I mean the few fellas i know that are in relationships, tend to be in a constant state of drama. (which is fine, when you are a sophomore in college, but completely unacceptable the moment u graduate)-- Just like the attraction that brought them together, the relationships themselves seem to be pretty superficial.

SO.. with all that said- what is the RESOLVE? ummm-- if I knew, i'd probably not have the time to climb from under MY MAN to write this.. *giggle*

SIDENOTE: I absolutely LOVE the pic posted above.. there is something so innocent.. hopeful about it. Whether female-male or male-male.. doesnt matter-- just extremely cute. Its currently my wallpaper...

quote:

"do not wait for your ship to come in -- swim out to it"

- Unknown

the DWELLing

LOFT action... YUMMY

sunday FUNNIES

i was barely able to stop laughing long enuff, to post this-- #LMFAO