dayum boy, YOU DID that!

#flawless victory

gym CLASS: CATALYST

**grabs keys and heads to the gym**

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evening edition




A buddy turned me onto this show this morning. I ended up watching episodes throughout the day and into the evening. HILARIOUS. ... FO THE GODS!


i dare you not to fall out laughing by 2:35

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like FINE wine

I must admit, generally I am not a fan of the pretty boy type. But credit MUST be given where its due- the man is in his early 40's and looks amazing. No photoshop, no MAC foundation and concealer, no studio light... -- The man is NICE!

the DWELLing...

i left my heart keys to my condo in... SAN FRAN

House in San Francisco-- making me miss home :)

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its like looking at a metal version of myself...

HELLO frid@y night....

well dont just stand there... c'mon in!

oh WORD?!!

can you KEEP UP?

#makemeloosemybreath

Ever felt the pressure to keep up with the Jones'? 


I would be lying if I said I never felt a bit of pressure to keep up with my peer group. I have never viewed this as a bad thing-- because I have never attempted to keep up appearances to my detriment.  In fact, I think you SHOULD aspire to 'keep up'. After all, LIFE IS A COMPETITION. 


Just to further explain, 'keeping up' doesn't necessarily refer to material possessions. Keeping up can be related to a pleura of things. For instance, it is my desire to 'keep up', that has me looking at returning to school. In my small circle, about 50% of us have graduate degrees.. and at this point, I'd rather be a 'have' than 'have not'. So my attention has turned to finding feasible part-time school options. To me, this is example of fostering a healthy competition. Another thing, my small group of friends are all attractive. This doesn't mean they all look like flawless muscle boys or sexy R&B crooners. We all have our distinct looks... tall, short, thick, thin, light, and dark (hell, a few of 'em aint even black)... and they are all beautiful in my eyes. Regardless of the look, they all place a priority on maintaining there appearance. Healthy competition. This means, no-one is doing drugs (well, none of the really fun ones ;), no-one is allowing boyfriends or girlfriends to beat their ass, and no-one is without the funds to maintain their sexy (... shhhh, that OLAY regenerist and night time serum aint cheap!!). 


Now, I might work out and drink nasty-a$$ protein shakes in an effort to 'keep up', while my boy may have a standing appoint with Lin-Ling at Pretty Nail to 'keep up' (and I know that sounds racist, but ummm that's her name)... but we are both feeding into the idea. The idea of 'keeping up'. 


Like so much else, so idea of 'keeping up with the Jones' isnt the bad guy, its how the individual invokes the idea that can cause it to be negative.

**Twist'd turns up the Destiny Child classic, and b-bop's away**

iCANDY : body perfect

gym CLASS: Catalyst

I have longed for a workout partner for years, but I cant seem to find one. In the meantime, I have found other ways to spark motivation.

oh WORD!!??

in heavy rotation...

To know me, is to know that I am STILL dedicated to NETFLIX. Even though they fail to deliver new content, they are a great source of obscure gay films, foreign flix, old kung fu movies, and niche tv shows (both US and UK series). Everything I need; and for that reason, I am a fan. For a while, netflix has been my 'go to' as I try to survive on basic cable and avoid insane cable bills. 

Right now, some staples in my netflix queue include:

Buffy is .....FLAWLESS

Happy FOURTH!!

Happy FOURTH!!

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thundercats.... hooooooooooo!